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U, Me and It

Human beings are a weird bunch. We are a bunch of species that doesn’t understand ourselves at all. We are a bunch where we got nothing to do but bring problems on ourselves. We are a bunch of idiots.

Everyone of us, knows deeply, and understands truly, that relationship has problems, great problems. But none of us are actually approaching it with a clear mind. Many are getting into an relationship just for the sake of it, as it’s COOL! As long as you don’t dislike the person, it’s ok if you guys went out, after few days, weeks, or month of lovey dopey, all the problems starts to arise, leaving you complaining, but in the middle of the complain, you are still happily either continuing the relationship, or on the hunt for another one.

Why do we torture ourselves?

Yesterday, in a time frame of 2 hours, I heard about 6 different relationships having problems, from 3 different people. Thats an average of 2 per person :P I ask my self, what’s the point.

Some may say, problems are worth it, for the person you love. But i would say, to the person you love, there won’t be any problems.

So people, consider wisely before going onto your next love journey, it’s not a game, so don’t toy with it.

I guess it all comes down to … “Single and Free…or…Lonely and free?”

P.S Is it just me, or is it that every time I see a clinging couple, i would think the guy’s only going out with the girl coz he likes touching her. 

7 Responses to “U, Me and It”

  1. March 3rd, 2007 at 6:53 pm

    s. says:

    Some may say, problems are worth it, for the person you love. But i would say, to the person you love, there won’t be any problems.

    bullshit. problems go hand in hand with life, with reality. there’s no such thing as no problems in anything in life, even with someone you love. especially with someone you love. that’s how we learn - through experiences. otherwise, we’d all still be running around with the mentality of a pubescent britney spears.

    P.S Is it just me, or is it that every time I see a clinging couple, i would think the guy’s only going out with the girl coz he likes touching her.

    hahahaha! hey, c’mon now, don’t lie - i bet you want one of those girls who clings onto you like a leech, talks in a baby voice and agrees to and does everything you say too!

    : )

    in all honesty, do guys really go for that type of girls or is it just a stage that you go through, y’know, like instead of the dress-talk-eat-shit-like-an-’emo’ trend, it’s the i-want-a-pet-that-can-feed-itself trend?

    enlighten me

  2. March 3rd, 2007 at 6:55 pm

    s. says:

    and oh, idiots make for great entertainment. without idiots, we’d all have suicided from the boredom.

    so thank me.

    (and buy me whatever i want!)

    : )

  3. March 4th, 2007 at 10:39 am

    Reeny says:

    I have to agree with Sarah. All relationships has problems. Even if you do love each other, it doesn’t mean that you will “live happily ever after”. It’s all about learning to solve those problems with your love ones and understanding what they truly feels.

    It is also the problems that makes the relationship stronger than ever.

  4. March 4th, 2007 at 11:03 am

    Andu says:

    Well i guess i just feel really cheated, as i’ve been lied to by all of them fairy tales….

    “..and they lived happily ever after…”

  5. March 4th, 2007 at 3:35 pm

    苏怡文 says:

      不要因为害怕痛苦和争吵而不去爱.
      不过心理学上有种行为叫"非爱行为".就是以爱的名义对最亲近得人进行的非爱性活动."我就是因为爱你,放弃了什么什么,你也要怎样怎样...."矛盾与争吵往往就是这么开始.对我们爱的人要求太多.
      距离和独立是对人格的尊重,对最亲近的人,也应该保有.
      单身好,在没有遇到你真正爱得人之前.爱了,就不要拒绝痛苦,它们是并存的.
      不过还是单身好.单身万岁........
      

  6. March 4th, 2007 at 6:17 pm

    lingling says:

    i still dont get what IT means…explain it to me…what can i say, im an idiot…
    lol
    xox

  7. March 5th, 2007 at 5:29 pm

    Reeny says:

    YEH!

    Once you’ve love, don’t regret.

    If you haven’t, so what? Enjoy being single!

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