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Chasing for Love

The following is a collection of my random thoughts, if you can’t be bothered, do not need to read on :) just go to the next post, the one about code breaking…..

The all famous quote:”If you truely love someone, you set them free”

True? No? Your own opinions, but to me, it seems fairly true.

When you found the one, the one that you feel whom’s perfect, no faults what so ever. But she/he doesn’t like you back, atleast you are sure of it. What would you do? Would you simply wish her best of luck and hopefully he/she finds someone she/he truely will be happy with, and his/her happiness will inresult bring you happiness…

Or…

You found the one, whom you believe is perfect, but not the other way round, atleast you are sure of it. But you would not give up and tries to do everything to make it work, to make you perfect for him/her. Do things to manipulate the nature of the world for your own wellbeing. To MAKE her/him to like you back.

Is that right? Politically, no. Socially? maybe, as many people does it. But then, a lot of people pirate things, does that make it right? not really. If it’s not right, does people still do it? Yes, as to many it doesn’t seem to be a big deal.

Still remember, in all kinds of sitcoms, you see the guy or the girl waits for the other person to make the move, but due to many reasons, the other party stays relucant to do anything. What does the person do? They always seeks the advice from their friends and end up going out with someone whom they don’t really care much about, but just to make the other party jealous, inresult to provoke an action.

If it was me, I prob just smile and wish the person a good luck for the rest of her life, as I don’t believe in taking her away from who’s with. But sometimes that’s seen as cowardly actions. Not wanting to fight for what you want. Then again, doesn’t that make what you want to be a thing which is very insultive for the person?

That is not the point. The point is, “winning somenoe’s heart” doesn’t make sense to me, at all.

If you truely love someone, would you set them free?

4 Responses to “Chasing for Love”

  1. October 20th, 2006 at 9:42 pm

    Shan says:

    If you truely love someone, would you set them free?

    yes i would..altho it hurts real bad but i would..^.^

  2. October 21st, 2006 at 9:05 am

    andrew says:

    sometimes if you are really so sure its the person, then just tell her. if she says “lets just be friends” or “its not you, its me” (which are patented lines) then thats it mate. you can choose to go two ways, like you said, but you’ll hafta see how the girl reacts.

    if you decide to chase her, she might be
    1. mannnn this guy’s so freaking annoying can’t he take the hint?
    OR
    2. yummmm he really likes me hey maybe we should go out
    the latter, of course being better.

    if you decide to ‘let her go’ without a significant fight to set them free (WHICH IS EXTREMELY LAME ASS IN MY OPINION)
    1. wad the how much does he like me? he says he does but he didn’t do jack.
    OR
    2. wow…. so meaningful…. he’s willing to let me go find some other guy….

  3. October 21st, 2006 at 9:07 am

    andrew says:

    lame my brother just came in and i was meant to press alt + tab but i pressed enter ANYWAY,

    it really matters on the girl la.

    oh wells.

    women. shrugz.

  4. October 21st, 2006 at 4:26 pm

    Andu says:

    thanks for that great insight :) haha…it’s yea, quite..complicated, i guess is the word.

    anyways, yea, women..=.= or girls…..

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